You’ve heard all the descriptions before…

A real man is in charge of his world.  He is confident, He stands tall.  He is decisive.  He takes action.

These traits are incredibly attractive to women…of all ages. And, you obviously recognize that this posture is what will bring as many great women into your life as you’d like.

But, here’s the problem…

How to Master Yourself to Become A True KingMost guys don’t know how to get from where they are to being the “King.”

Sadly, many of us were raised by one parent.  In most cases, it was our mother.  There’s some great Moms out there, but they’re not exactly a good male role model.

And the popular culture we’ve been exposed to?  Most of the popular movies made in the last 30 years are either “chick flicks” or “male action” types.  And, it could be argued that neither one of these does much to promote a healthy male attitude.  They’re either too soft, or too hard.

Being the King of your world is neither of these polarities, yet it does include elements of both.  A benevolent ruler is someone strong, yet compassionate.  Decisive, yet fair.  Protective, without being needy or overbearing.

Many guys think that they can just buy a course, learn a few pickup lines, and be ready for world domination.  And, although there are some great training courses out there, outward skills will not necessarily make you a better man.  The most important thing is what’s going on between your ears.

So, how do you develop the mindset of a King?

Actually, it’s a journey.  It’s not something that can happen overnight.  It’s not about acting cocky or showing bravado.  It’s not something that you turn on and off like a switch.  It’s something inside.  It’s a feeling.  It’s a KNOWING.  And once you know, everything else will fall into place.

And the trick?

It’s pretty simple.  Just START.  It begins with just ONE step.  Find one thing about yourself that you’d like to improve…maybe it’s your education, your weight, your job, a bad habit you’ve been wanting to kick, etc.  Pick just ONE that you want to work on.  It doesn’t even matter which one it is….the point is to just START.

As you begin improving in one area, your confidence will increase.  As your confidence increases, you will begin to love yourself more.  As you begin to love yourself more, you will be able to tackle your other demons.  After you’ve slayed your own dragons, you’ll wake up one day, and realize that you are now the KING of your life.

The ancient Chinese philosopher Lao Tzu once said:

“Mastering others is strength. Mastering yourself is true power.”

Wishing you the best life you can live.

To your success,


Jeff-SchechterBy John’s Special Guest: Jeff Schechter
Jeff Schechter, or “Shecky” as his friends call him, was born to an average middle class American family. Although he always had great friends and family, he never really figured out how to attract the right women. At age 50 he found himself riddled with family problems…and single. It was not until a fateful business lunch, that he stumbled on a secret for older guys to be able to attract any woman they want. He has since refined and tested this idea, and shares it in his books. His mission is to help one million middle-aged men avoid the mid-life crisis that nearly devastated him, and to live lives enriched with the abundance of love. CLICK HERE to download his Free Report “The 10 Commandments To Attracting & Dating Younger Women” NOW!