There are many reasons why you want to master the skill of attraction.

One of those reasons is it can preserve your relationships with your guy friends because you’ll have the ability to say no to a situation you should say no to.

One thing I’ve observed over the years is that when several people go into business together or have a closed social system where they go out with the same group of people all the time, they tend to start sleeping with each others wives and girlfriends.

How to Enhance the Art of Attracting WomenThis, obviously, never ends well. Many men do it because they don’t know how to attract women in general, and therefore cannot say no to an offer of easy sex from a friend’s bored spouse.

The man who can attract women doesn’t have to worry about this. First off, when he’s spending time with women outside of a closed social circle, there’s no risk of being in that situation in the first place. Secondly, even if he does get an offer, he can politely say no and keep it to himself because he’s not making a decision out of scarcity. He get action from women outside the social circle, so he can so no if it happens to be offered within.

Men who say yes to this offer often do so because they don’t believe they can get it anywhere else, and this might be their last chance for a long time. They give into the moment, and do something they will truly regret, something that can destroy their relationships with their friends.

Mastering the skill of attraction gives you the power to say NO, and that is a power that will earn you respect from both men and women. Women always marvel at a man who can say no, and when you know how to attract women outside your social circle you’re happy to say yes to, it’s easy to say no to an offer that will get you in trouble.

A man who tries to sleep with his friends wives, girlfriends, and even dates is a cad, someone not worthy of respect. A man who won’t even mentally go there because he knows the consequences AND can attract women on his own, thank you, is a man worthy of respect.

It is very hard to say no when you believe your options are limited, and you might not ever get another opportunity. There is a reason why there are 7 billion people on the planet, and that’s because the sex drive is very powerful.

But when you provide options for yourself with your skills, you can control that drive, instead of letting it get out of control and ruining your life. So master the skill of attraction- it will give you more opportunities to say yes, and the power to say no when you know you should say no.

john alanisBy Your Host: John Alanis
John Alanis has been teaching men how to attract the women they really want since 2004, even getting them to approach you first, no matter your looks, age or income. John not only teaches the skill of initial attraction, he also teaches the skill of sustaining attraction so men can continue the relationships they form with women. After all, it is no good to meet lots of women if they won’t stick around.

John is most certainly not a part of the “pick up artist crowd,” instead teaching men how to make themselves “naturally attractive” by suppressing unattractive behaviors and amplifying attractive ones, making yourself attractive without changing “who you are.” John served in the US Navy’s submarine force in the early 90’s, worked in the oilfields of Alaska and has been running his own business since 1995. The theme of “mental toughness” and “how to be a real man in an age of girlie men” runs through is writings and teachings. While not for the faint of heart or weak of mind, John’s teachings do get results, and he has many happy subscribers and customers.