Great question! This is the one men have been asking themselves ever since it was deemed a crime to be single and alone.

But seriously, if you want to find a girlfriend, there are lots of things you can do to make this happen.

Here are some places you can go when you’re in the process of finding a soulmate – and a couple that you shouldn’t go near!

Place to Find a GirlfriendGo Online and Find a Date

Online dating sites are great for singles to hook up with men and women who share their tastes and preferences. There are dating sites for virtually every kind of person – no matter what their background might be. Find a reputed one that has good online reviews; you don’t want to sign up with some shady site that isn’t really above board.

Back to School

If you’re taking masters, you’re in the best place you’ll ever be for picking up women. This is where you will find the smart women who are serious about their lives and careers because they’ve invested so much into their education. This is also the right time to develop life-long relationships. Lots of guys end up meeting the girl of their dreams while studying – why not you?

NOT the Clubs

Clubs aren’t the place to go when you want to find someone to have a serious relationship with. Booty call – yes; soulmate – not quite! You aren’t likely to find a girl who is serious about meeting someone they can love, cherish, honor and so forth. It’s most likely that you will find a party animal with commitment issues.

NOT the Singles Bars

Just like clubs, bars are not the best places to find girls that want to get seriously involved with you. The term party animal crops up again with bars, and besides, you’re more likely to end up with an alcoholic with morning cravings than a girl to spend your life with. The problem with both bars and clubs is that they’re not ideal for those with set objectives like finding true love.

Local Events

Town-organized events are great places to meet women from all kinds of backgrounds. There’s no guarantee of finding a soulmate at these places, but your chances are much better.  At such events, you can be properly introduced by a mutual friend or a relative; the chances of getting into a serious relationship are much higher than otherwise.

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